Christmas with kids is a whole different ballgame, isn’t it? Between the endless to-do lists, wrapping presents at midnight, and keeping little hands off the tree, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. But let me tell you, it doesn’t have to be this way. You can enjoy Christmas with kids—and no, it doesn’t require Pinterest-worthy decorations or a perfectly curated holiday schedule.
Last year, when my little one was 18 months old, I had a revelation. He wasn’t speaking much yet, but he could say a few words—yes, including Santa before Mama (no hard feelings, really). But what truly melted my heart was his love for the word star. Everywhere we went, he’d point and shout excitedly, “Star! Star!” It became one of his first words, and it completely shifted how I saw the season. Instead of racing through the holiday chaos, we slowed down together, searching for stars and soaking up the magic. It reminded me that Christmas isn’t about doing it all—it’s about being present, making memories, and enjoying the moments that matter most.
Simplify Your Expectations for a More Joyful Season
Before December hits, take a moment to reflect:
• What do I really want this Christmas to feel like?
• What can I let go of to make that happen?
For me, this means letting go of the idea of a picture-perfect Christmas. I’ve realised I don’t need a magazine-worthy tree or a packed calendar of events to create a magical season. Instead, I focus on the little traditions that truly bring us joy—like baking cookies together, cuddling up for a Christmas movie, or simply enjoying each other’s company. By simplifying, you’ll discover that the holiday magic doesn’t come from perfection but from presence—and your kids will love it just as much (if not more). And when it comes to gift-giving, the same principle applies. If you’re looking for ways to make Christmas more meaningful (without overloading the toy box), take a peek at my blog post, ‘A Parent’s Guide to Meaningful Christmas Gifts for Children.’ It’s packed with thoughtful, simple ideas your kids will treasure long after the season ends.
Create a Stress-Free Space for the Holidays
One of the biggest challenges when trying to enjoy Christmas with kids—especially toddlers—is the tree. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard, “Don’t touch the tree!” But here’s where my teaching background comes in handy: redirection. Alongside our real tree, I set up a felt Christmas tree just for my little one. It’s his own special tree to decorate and redecorate (and redecorate again). When those curious hands head for the ornaments, I gently redirect: ‘Let’s decorate your tree instead!’ This small shift helps keep the holiday decorations safe and makes it easier to enjoy Christmas with kids by taking away the stress of constantly saying no and giving me a few minutes of peace (and maybe even a hot cup of tea).
Involve Your Kids in the Christmas Magic
Let’s face it—preparing for Christmas is half the battle. But instead of trying to do it all yourself, why not make your kids part of the process? Here are a few simple ways to involve them:
• Decorate wrapping paper: Let them colour, paint, or stamp plain kraft paper to create their own designs.
• Simple baking tasks: Give them small jobs like sprinkling decorations on cookies or stirring the batter.
• Set the table together: It might not look perfect, but it’s a lovely way to make them feel included.
Not only will this keep them occupied, but it also makes them feel like they’re part of the magic.
Have a Plan for the Tough Days
We all know that some days don’t go as planned. The kids are overtired, you’re running on caffeine, and the Christmas cheer feels far, far away. That’s when a backup plan can save the day. Here are a few easy ideas:
• Christmas movie marathon: Pop on their favourite festive film and cuddle up with some popcorn.
• Impromptu hot chocolate picnic: Spread a blanket on the living room floor, make hot chocolates, and let the chaos fade away.
• Outdoor reset: Head to the backyard or local park for a quick runaround—it’s amazing what fresh air can do for everyone’s mood.
Giving yourself permission to pause and pivot during the Christmas chaos can make all the difference in how you enjoy Christmas with kids and stay present in the moment.
Be Present, Not Perfect
Last year, my son’s love for stars taught me the value of slowing down. Whether we were out running errands or looking up at the night sky, his excitement reminded me to stay present. Kids don’t need elaborate plans to feel the magic of Christmas. They just need you. So, take a deep breath, put down the to-do list, and join them in their wonder—whether it’s spotting stars, reading a holiday story, or dancing to Christmas songs in the living room.
Make This December Yours
If you’re nodding along, thinking this all sounds great, but how do I actually do it? I’ve got you covered. That’s exactly why I created This December, You Come First—a guide designed to help mamas slow down, set boundaries, and truly enjoy the holiday season. Inside, you’ll find:
• Practical tips to reduce holiday stress.
• Journal prompts to help you focus on what matters most.
• Simple ways to make time for yourself (yes, even during Christmas).
Because here’s the truth: when you’re calm and grounded, the whole family benefits. And isn’t that what we all want this Christmas?
A Christmas You’ll Actually Enjoy
So, how do you enjoy Christmas with kids without going crazy? Start by letting go of perfection. Simplify your expectations, set up your space for success, involve your kids in the process, and have a backup plan for the hard days. And if you need a little extra help along the way, don’t forget to check out This December, You Come First. It’s your permission slip to step back, slow down, and enjoy the holiday season on your terms.
Ready to make this December yours? Click here to grab your guide today. Let’s make this the year you truly enjoy Christmas—with all its stars, chaos, and magic.
Christmas with kids isn’t about perfection—it’s about presence. Slow down, soak up the magic, and remember: the best memories are made in the simplest moments.
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