It’s beginning to look a lot like… chaos, right? The lists are growing, the invites are rolling in, and the mental load? Let’s just say it’s heavier than the Christmas pudding. As much as I love this season — the lights, the laughter, the sparkle — I know how easy it is for joy to […]
Do you ever feel like you’re carrying an invisible checklist in your head—one that just keeps getting heavier? The milk that needs buying, the reply to the strata manager, the library books already overdue, the energy bill waiting to be paid, the meeting agenda at work, and on top of it all the constant “mama, […]
It happened one night at 3am. My toddler was wide awake again, and as I sat there in the dark, I realised something important: I can’t keep waiting for things to change before I start looking after myself. With sleep school, sleep coaches, even a sleep study in hospital, nothing has worked. The truth is, […]
Let’s be real: self-care in difficult seasons rarely looks like the Pinterest-perfect moments we imagine. When life is heavy—whether that’s a sick toddler, burnout, or just the relentless swirl of mama life—the way we care for ourselves needs to shift in ways that sometimes surprise us. And honestly? That’s okay. I want you to know you’re seen. […]
Some days, I look in the mirror and don’t even recognise myself. Not in a dramatic way – just in a “where did she go today?” way. The woman who had dreams and plans and rituals… lost somewhere between toddler tantrums, work emails, making lunch, and cleaning up the crumbs for the fifth time before […]
Some days feel loud before the sun even rises. But it’s the evenings that really get me. You know the kind. Where your extroverted child has an energy surge just as your last nerve is hanging by a thread. They’re ready to wrestle, chatter, sing, and bounce… and you? You’re dreaming of a quiet corner […]
I almost didn’t take the break. There were toys scattered across the floor, a half-done grocery list open on my phone, and the never-ending hum of what’s next? running through my brain. I had just enough time to do one more thing—but instead, I sat down. Ten minutes. No agenda. No goal. Just a cup of tea […]
Before I accepted that my toddler doesn’t nap, I lived in a cycle of rushing. Rushing out the door to make sure we were back in time for a nap that may or may not happen. Rushing through dinner to stick to the “ideal” bedtime. Rushing through my own needs in hopes I’d get five […]
When I became a mama, a long-time dream came true. As an early childhood educator, I thought I was prepared, fully expecting to cherish every moment with kids, just like everyone said I would. But no one warns you about the moments that don’t feel cherishable—the sleepless nights, the endless crying, the exhaustion that settles into […]
The Unseen Weight You Carry Every Day. You know that moment when you finally sit down with a hot cup of tea—only to realize you’ve forgotten to reply to that school email, order more wipes, and oh… was today dress-up day? That’s the invisible load of motherhood—the never-ending to-do list running in the background of […]