If you’re anything like me, Christmas brings a mix of joy and a dash of chaos. It’s my favourite time of year—cosy vibes, tea, fairy lights—but moving to Australia threw me a curveball. Instead of chilly nights with blankets, I’m now swapping scarves for beach days. And last year, I felt a new pressure: making Christmas perfect for my little one.
Suddenly, the “to-do” list grew, and instead of just being in the moment, I was stressing about everything from finding matching PJs to creating picture-perfect memories. But when an alarm went off reminding me to get those PJs (yep, I set an alarm!), I knew something needed to change. I didn’t want the pressure; I wanted the peace. I wanted a December that actually felt calm and meaningful.
And that’s how This December, You Come First was born. It’s a gentle, stress-free Christmas guide to help you reclaim the holiday season, put yourself first, and actually enjoy this special time.
Why This December, You Come First Is Different
This guide isn’t about doing more; it’s about slowing down and finding small ways to make December yours, on your terms. Because honestly, we’ve all felt that holiday rush—and while it can be exciting, it’s easy to lose ourselves in the pressure to make everything perfect.
This December, You Come First is about letting go of those expectations and embracing a holiday season that’s less about “shoulds” and more about what you need. And don’t worry, it’s for everyone: whether you’re celebrating a summer Christmas in your thongs, bundled up in a winter wonderland, or somewhere in between. Mama or no mama, this guide is all about reconnecting with the joy of the season.
Tips to Handle Holiday Stress Like a Pro
While This December, You Come First has everything you need for a calmer holiday, here are a few extra tips to start taking the pressure off:
- Say “No” Without Guilt
The holiday season often comes with endless invitations, activities, and to-dos. Practice saying “no” to things that don’t align with how you want to spend your time. Politely decline a few extra commitments, and remember that it’s okay to set boundaries that help protect your energy and make space for what truly matters. - Create Your Own Traditions
Feel like the usual holiday traditions don’t quite fit? This is the perfect time to make your own! Whether it’s a summer BBQ Christmas dinner or a sunset walk, choose traditions that bring you and your loved ones genuine joy. - Build in Time to Rest
December can feel like a sprint to the finish line, but you don’t have to run yourself ragged. Pencil in downtime, even if it’s just half an hour with a cuppa. Remember, resting is part of celebrating, too!
A Hint at What’s Inside This December, You Come First
Inside This December, You Come First, you’ll find a collection of gentle, practical tools designed to help you slow down, reset, and savour the season your way. From letting go of traditions that don’t serve you to tracking which gatherings truly recharge you, every page brings you closer to a more intentional December. You’ll find:
- The “Let It Go” List – a not-to-do list that helps you release what doesn’t serve you.
- Event Energy Tracker – see which festive moments fill your cup (and which quietly drain it).
- Permission Slips for December – gentle reminders that it’s okay to rest, say no, and do things differently.
- Your December Compass – stay anchored to what truly matters this season.
- End-of-Season Reflection – pause and notice what made this December special, so you can carry it into next year.
- Bonus: Festive Affirmation Cards – little reminders to keep your home and heart light all season long.
It’s not a planner, it’s a pause — a moment to realign, breathe, and bring the joy back home.
Reclaim December for Yourself
Imagine stepping into December with a sense of calm, knowing you have a simple guide that helps you keep what matters most at the forefront. That’s what This December, You Come First is all about—giving yourself permission to enjoy the season, focus on what makes you feel good, and create memories that you will cherish. Ready to make this holiday truly yours? Grab your guide here and let’s embrace a December that’s warm, intentional, and all about you.
Oh, and just a little reminder—whether you’re celebrating with sand between your toes or snow on your boots, This December, You Come First is for everyone looking to take back the joy in the holiday season. This year, let’s do Christmas on our terms.
So, put the kettle on, grab your guide, and let’s create a December that feels as good as it looks.
Make this holiday season yours—ditch the pressure, embrace the moments, and put yourself first.
